Several years ago, I spoke to a minister who was teaching in the outskirts of New York on 9/11 2001. He told me that he’d never seen strangers come together as they did in the weeks after the attack on the Twin Towers. People went out of their way to be nice to each other, support each other, smile at each other, and lend a helping hand wherever they could. He has not experienced anything like it since.
People Get Sidetracked
The truth is that work towards harmony often dissipates in rhythm with receding acrimony. People start to feel better and get sidetracked. This is natural.
If you want to be a bridge-builder, however, you have to work against this instinctive urge. You have to make harmony important, either by continually reminding yourself of the worst that can happen or by envisioning the kind of world that you want to live in and work towards that every day. Some days the carrot will be enough to spur you to action, other days only a vivid mental image of the stick will do the trick.
It's Not Us, It's Them
During our many outreach efforts at Harmony Interfaith Initiative, we get a chance to talk to a variety of people and organizations. Some of those we contact point fingers and say: “It’s not us. It’s them. They started it. We are living in harmony with each other. They are the ones causing the ruckus.”
That’s often true. It may be true in your case as well. In fact, you may be doing your best to live in harmony and yet you cannot escape being disturbed by the drumbeat of discord around you. All of us have to face up to that reality. Life is not an elementary school playground. We can’t wait for the teacher to come and make everything better, even if ‘they’ started it.
We Are Responsible
Even if we did not create the acrimony, even if we weren’t the ones who created the divide, we can be bridge-builders, healers, harmonizers, and a vital part of the solution. We can reach out across divides that we did not create for the sake of social harmony. We can cause positive reverberations to offset negative discord. We can be the change we want to see in the world.
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Our mission is to train and support people who want to do good in the world. We do this by providing access to strategies, methods, and ideas that promote social harmony and enable bridge-building across divides. Our primary goal is to help others create harmony in diverse communities.
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